Showing posts with label Thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Thoughts. Show all posts

Sunday, January 9, 2011

[January 9] Århus, Denmark: Goodbye, Europe

Tomorrow bright and early in the morning, my Aunt is going to drive me to the train station to begin my journey home (very, very early in the morning... she's a trooper and awfully nice!). 

Aarhus --> Copenhagen --> Washington D.C. --> Seattle... HOME SWEET HOME!!!

It will take no less than 24 hours to get home, but the thought of meeting my parents at the airport will definitely keep my spirits up! I really hate flying and the logistics of traveling. Even though I've clearly been traveling quite a bit and have been on airplanes several times in my life, I'm still not especially comfortable with it all! I love riding on trains, but I get nervous about missing them, so on and so forth. 

As I started out my European adventure in Denmark and have ended it in Denmark, it feels like London etc. never happened! Ha ha, well not quite but I have made a full circle. I started out fresh and excited in the sunny summertime, and as nature ends its cycle in the wintertime, so I end my travels. Soon it will be spring and I can start things new and fresh—I have a lot to look forward to and a lot on my 2011 To Do List!

As of now, I feel the best thing about my abroad experiences in Europe have been proving to myself that I CAN DO IT. I can show up at a completely new place not knowing anyone or where anything is and in a sense, start over. I eventually felt pretty comfortable in London and developed a routine.

I think it will probably take awhile for me to totally process everything I have experienced, and I'm curious how I will feel about everything in a few months or a year when I look back at it all. Will I miss London? When will I miss it? Because I don't miss it quite yet, but then again, I'm still away from home. 

I really like these pictures because it shows a scene in Aarhus that I took a picture of in both Summer and Winter:


Wish me luck with my travels tomorrow! :)

Goodbye, Europe!
Hello, USA!

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Differences: UK vs. US

I've lived in London for almost 3 months now—I can't believe it's been that long! I've been collecting some observations about the differences between the UK and US since I've been here, and here they are! There are probably more that I just forgot but... this list is long enough already:

-They don't have 'garbage cans' here... they have 'rubbish bins'! Sometimes it can be really hard to find a rubbish bin, because I guess they're had problems with bombs being planted in them.

-"Take away?" When you're ordering coffee or a sandwich, they'll always ask this. At home we would say "I'd like this to go" or we'd call it "take out".

-A 'trolley' is a shopping cart.

-On some preparation instructions on food that needs to be heated up, it will refer to the stove as 'the hob'.

-A cell phone is always a 'mobile'.

-When talking about a person, you would say "He's called John" instead of "His name is John". To me saying "He's called John" gives the impression that that's what he's called, but it might not be his real name!

-When you're riding the tube (the subway, I think that's a well-known difference), you will always hear "Mind the gap", which just means watch the area between the platform and the train because you don't want to get your foot caught in there or something. I think at home we would just say "Watch your step" or something... never 'Mind the gap'.

-Of course, money is a bit different here. Coins can actually buy things, ha ha. There's a 2 pound coin, a 1 pound coin, 50 pence, 20 pence, 10 pence, 5 pence, 2 pence, and 1 pence coin. Pence basically = cents. A 'quid' is the same as a 'pound', and sometimes people just say "50 p" instead of "50 pence".

-"I lost 2 stone!" A stone = 14lbs.

-Of course, some things are spelled different, for example 'colour' vs. 'color', 'defence' vs. 'defense', etc.

-Some words are pronounced completely differently. For example, advertisement. In the States, we would say 'TIZE' in adverTIZEment. Here, they say "advertissment". I'm not sure if I explained that well. They also say 'glacier' differently... like "Glassier". There are a lot of other words that are pronounced differently but those are the two that come to mind!

-Along the same line as the last one, the letter 'Z' is said 'Zed' instead of 'Zee'. For example, there are these A-Z books that have very detailed maps of London. "Do you have your A to Zed book?"

-A crosswalk is called a Zebra crossing, pronounced 'Zebbrah'.

-As I'm sure you know, they drive on the 'wrong' or opposite side of the road here. Traffic can be kind of scary. On the ground, it will usually say "LOOK RIGHT" or "LOOK LEFT" so you know which way to look for oncoming traffic. At these crossings, cars seem to have the right-of-way, whereas at the Zebra crossings, cars have to stop for you.

-Here, a 'diary' is a planner/schedule. The first time I heard it, a woman was telling us to write down certain dates in our diaries and I thought it was a bit funny but I quickly realized what she meant.

-There is CCTV everywhere. "You are being monitored by CCTV". I'm not entirely sure what this means. Because if it's true in every instance, there's a LOT of people sitting around watching cameras filming people doing really boring things. But I suppose it helps cut down on crime? Buses have cameras and sometimes there is even a screen where you can watch people on other parts of the bus. Big Brother? I mean personally I don't really mind, it's just the idea of it all.

-They definitely have fast food here—I've only noticed McDonalds and KFC thought. And Subway, if that counts. Instead of Taco Bells and Wendy's and all of that 'rubbish' everywhere, they have Pret A Manger EVERYWHERE. Really, you can't walk 5 minutes without coming across one. They're shops that sell fresh, healthy sandwiches that are made new every single day. They also sell coffee, some other beverages, wraps, sushi, yogurts, and fruit. America should really catch onto this! They're also quite reasonable in price. I get coffee there for 99p sometimes (about $1.50).

-If you want milk in your coffee, you ask for a 'white coffee'. I remember the first time someone asked if I wanted a white coffee I said "What's that?" Ha ha.

-Sometimes at museums or in tube stations, there will be a sign that says 'Meeting Point'. I assume this is for people meeting each other! Ha ha. What a good idea though.

-The drinking age here is 18, but if you look under 21 you can still get carded. I usually get carded because I look like I'm 15.

-At a lot of clubs, there will be a woman sitting in the bathroom with an assortment of cosmetics, lollipops, mints, and honestly I don't know what else. She will hand you a paper towel and there is a little dish where you can tip her. You don't HAVE to tip but they're really happy when you do I think. Also... every single time I've seen a woman in a bathroom doing this (which has been several times), she has ALWAYS been racially black. (I almost said African-American but obviously that doesn't quite work here). I have no idea why this is so.

-You don't really tip here. It's not expected, although sometimes it will already be included in the bill as a 'service fee'. Tipping is still nice though, if you feel like it. Sometimes it just FEELS rude to leave without tipping.

-You have to ASK specifically to get your check at a restaurant. They won't just bring it to you because it's seen as being kind of rude, like they're trying to kick you out. At home, I would just wonder what was taking them so long if they didn't bring me my check.

-Piccadilly Circus, Oxford Circus, etc.: Before I went to these places, I thought they might be really fun places with rides or something. HAHA. All it means is that it's sort of a central location with crazy traffic zooming in all directions.

-'Ring 0012334556789' just means to 'Call'.

-When I'm just walking around, I am always really confused about whether to walk on the left or the right. I try to stay to the left, but sometimes other people don't go by this rule so there's that awkward moment when you move, they move, you go back, etc. Can we have a national meeting and sort this out? Please? I would also really like to know which side of the staircase to walk on! At home, easy: Walk on the right and I think everyone's happy.

-Not a single day goes by that I don't hear more than one language being spoken. London is SUCH an ethnically diverse city!

Thursday, November 25, 2010

[November 25] London: My first Thanksgiving away from home...

This is Bloomsbury Square. It has nothing to do with this post, but it's a random picture I have that I like... it's near the IES Centre.
This is my first Thanksgiving that I won't be spending with my family. I didn't think I would really miss Thanksgiving, to be honest, but now that the time is here... Well, I just wish I could teleport home for the weekend. It's snowing at home and I just imagine being cozy by the fireplace with my family and cuddling up with my puppy dog Bella and sleeping and eating A LOT of delicious Thanksgiving food. Sigh. It really sounds perfect. But I have so many things here in London to be thankful for, and my time abroad really 'makes up' for missing the typical Thanksgiving at home.

Some specific things I'm thankful for right now:

-I'm thankful that my parents let me come to London and that they're supporting me in many ways here. I remember when I first talked to them about possibly studying abroad in London and my mom said that she wanted me to have the experience of studying abroad if I wanted, and my dad said that London is huge and has millions of people! And then he looked kind of stressed out. Hahaha!

-I'm thankful I've made friends with so many lovely people here in London. I don't know what it's going to be like to leave them all and honestly maybe never see some of them again. But on the bright side... now I have an excuse to travel to visit these people.

-I'm thankful for my friends at home and that I can still count on from across the globe.

-I'm thankful that I'm an American. Before coming to Europe, I was nervous that everyone here would really dislike or even hate Americans. I thought I might begin to really despise Americans as well. But actually, I've heard really positive things from the 'natives' I've spoken to regarding Americans and in many ways I really prefer my American 'way of life'. I actually have more pride in being and American than I did before.

Well, there is A LOT more I'm thankful for of course, but these are the main things on my mind right now.

Oh, how I really miss home right now...

Friday, October 15, 2010

[October 15] London: Thoughts & Musing Thus Far

I realize that so far, my posts have been very to the point: I did this, I did that, and here are a few vague thoughts to sum it all up. 

Although I don't expect you to, you may recall my very first on this blog: I listed my worries. I was worried about making friends. I was worried about dealing with my anxiety and panic attacks and dizziness. I was worried about cultural differences and accidentally offending someone. I was worried about what to pack. And I was worried about screwing up transportation as I'm not used to public transportation since, being an oil-reliant American, I drive everywhere. 

Well! I've been proven that my worries, although perhaps legitimate, have been unnecessary. I've made some really great friends and have met so many lovely people to be around, talk to about things great and small, hang out with, people with similar interests... I've been so pleasantly surprised!!! As for some of the young men I've met... well there's always your fair share of jerks and disappointments but I've been lucky and met some really nice ones...

I haven't had issues with anxiety or panic attacks which is such a relief considering I'm in one of the largest cities in the world and crowds are common and I've been packed on the tube like a sardine. I've had some dizziness issues but nothing that's kept me in bed or prevented me from doing the things that I've wanted to. What a relief! I never thought it would be like this, I never thought I could be so happy and fairly dizzy-free!

As for what I packed, I keep thinking "Oh I wish I had this from home, I wish I could wear this today..." but realistically I just couldn't have managed bringing any more with me and I've bought what I needed which was expensive and really added up in the beginning but that's part of what I've been saving up for anyway. 

Then there's public transportation... in Denmark I was a bit flustered about the train and whatnot, but everything worked out okay. As for London, the tube is incredibly easy to use which I never quite believed when people assured me this was so beforehand. I haven't mastered the buses yet although they're easy enough or really tackled the trains but it's been okay! And I always know that if I get truly lost or scared I can always take a cab, which I haven't had to do yet. I've been walking a lot; there's no way around it and so if you ever plan on visiting London I highly recommend bringing a good pair of walking shoes and being in decent shape.

Whew!

In case it hasn't been clear, I am in love with London. It already feels like home and I feel well-adjusted to life here and have for a few weeks now. I've lived here now for about 40 days. I can see the River Thames from my dorm window and the London Eye, Tower, etc. from my kitchen window. Fantastic. Every day I think, "Now Alyssa, don't you dare take this for granted." Every day walking down the street I find it hard to believe I'm in London, London, London, capital of the English-speaking world, capital of literature and culture and music... well I haven't forsaken my American pride and I could argue the same capital this and capital this about America but I'm here and I feel happy and appreciative of all the city has to offer.

Sometimes I wish I could teleport home for a quiet evening with my family to have a sit-down dinner with all of them then talk to my parents about everything and bother my brother and joke with my grandparents and cuddle with my puppy dog but for the most part I haven't been homesick despite not being able to hear the voices of my family often enough because of stinkin' inconvenient time differences. 

I fear my time here will fly by but I look forward to every minute of it. Tomorrow I leave for Belgium for a quick weekend in Ieper!